Sorry, I am really nervous about posting here and promise that what I am about to say is not in order to offend anyone.
My 'D'H and I are going through a very hard time and are on the brink of splitting. He is not a bad person and is a great father so it's not relationship advice I am after it is more how would I manage if we did split up.
I think I could cope with living alone as he has worked away in the past for a while when we had one DS, I imagine it would be harder now we have two.
My biggest concern is the disruption to my lovely boys lives. They are happy, they have a lovely house in a great area and the eldest is settled in nursery with his wee friends. Splitting from H would mean moving them 400 miles away to what would have to be for financial reasons a two bedroom flat in what will probably be not the greatest of areas. I understand that many children live in flats in poorer areas - I was brought up like this and had a very happy childhood, I am well aware material things are not the be all and end all - but is it selfish of me to do this to them for my own gain and to their loss, the loss of their daddy full time and all that they know.
I am not desperatly unhappy, beaten or abused - just not in love with H and completley torn between what is best for them and what is best for me.
Financially I wouldn't know where to start, my DS are 3 and 1 and I am a SAHM.
Again, sorry this is long and rambling - if it makes sense to anyone then any advice would be much appreciated. Thank you
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tootiredtomakeupagoodname · 06/09/2011 14:36
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