hi, I'm a dad raising my two children with the help of my parents who moved into my family home (reason being, I have to on occasion work abroad but the house comes with the job). Now, myself and my ex separated aproximately 18 months ago due to alcohol abuse on her part and for the safety of our children they remained with me. I'm currently overseas and due back next week and my ex is supposed to have the children for a week over the summer holidays. However, she looked after them recently and had to take one to the hospital because of an infection. It transpires that social services where called because the mum was under the influence of alcohol. No further action has been taken but it petrified me the thought that something could have gone so wrong. I want to trust the ex and to not deny the children time with their mum but can I risk them staying up there for a week? She has assured me that it won't happen again and a lot of bridges were built between us for her to start having them stay over again. Please advise :-) thanks
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