my ds's dad has been absent from ds's life for the last 5 years since ds just turned 1 (ds 6.5 now) through his own choice. since then there has been no acknowledgement on passing eachother in the street or contact of any shape or form (apart from last month when he was a complete dick head and anounced in front of ds in a park that the little kid he was with was ds's brother - leaving ds completely confused)
I cant see ex choosing to have contact any time in the near future and ds doesn't seem to want to know his dad for the time being. and my opinion is that ds is better off not having him in his life after all this time until of course when ds is old enough to decide he wants to meet him.
My worst fear is that ds's dad will claim parental responsibility if i was to die. this would be a man who is a complete total stranger to ds and i don't want him grabbing this chance to worm his way back into ds's life especially if its not even in ds's wishes or best interests. Also, i don't want his dad to have any chance what so ever of getting his hands on anything i leave ds - which would be every penny i own.
Will a will ensure ds gets to live with my sister as we have agreed? I would want all my money to go to ds and my dad as beneficiary. i have enough people around me and ds to fight against ds's dad and to prove he's not had anything to do with ds for all these years.
Would a will sort this out for definate?
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juicychops · 22/07/2011 18:14
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