I'm a single mum to 2, one with a learning disablilty and looking for a job.
There are no part time jobs so I am limited to full time only (great for the bank) but I have hospital appoinments every couple of months for disabled child. I have no support what so ever, no family around me and my friends have thier own kids to take care of.
I'm scared, How the hell do you do it? How do you keep it all going? I dont know if I can. I can with a part time job but working full time is going to be difficult.
Either give me a kick up the arse and tell me not to be so stupid or ignore me.
I know none of this makes any sense but I do feel better for posting this.
I'm at home with the kids, havent had a job for a year now so childcare through the holidays hasnt been an issue. That I have to admit has been a god send in that respect, they've hardly been this term.
the answer to the question that names this thread is "you just do, there's no option".
... and I can tell you that things are difficult and perhaps will continue to be difficult for a while, but do not give up, you can manage whatever life throws at you if you don't tell yourself you can't do it.