hi, this is my first ever post so please bear with me.... I have been in relationship with bf and ds was born just over 2 1/2 yrs ago.. since his birth bf has become increasingly abusive towards me.. he suffers from extreme paranoia low self esteem isssues etc but consistantly refuses to seek any help as it is much more conveinient to blame me for' ruining his life'..... i have friends around where i live but they are worrkingand have teenage kids so hard to find quality time... also bf increasingly isolating me... NOT GOOD !!!!!
anyway an opportunity is maybe coming up for a part time job back in the uk (currently i live abroad).. so am thinking of moving back but it is to an area where i will know nobody apart from brother half hour drive and mother hour drive..
i am very resourceful and have travelled the world but the thought of this big change is quite daunting . finding house, moving, claiming hb ,tax credits..affording bills by myself, new job, ds starting nursery all in a place where i will know noone ..... eek... i know i have to make a change as things cant stay as they are but it is scary all the same...although the change will be good and i know i will meet new people but i am still scared...
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montbazens · 21/06/2011 10:46
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