My question is.. Does anyone opt to not receive child maintainance?
I am recently single mum to a 10 month old, his dad has had him 3 times for a few hours each time since we split a month ago & every other time has either lets me down or picks a fight when he gets here to pick our son up (last time he was throwing things & breaking stuff!!!) and then decides "I've wound him up too much to take him" - so it's my fault!
Anyway back on topic.. Up until now I'd decided that on his approx £1000/month take home salary, he's going to struggle to have a decent flat (obviously important that its nice for if & when my son goes to see him) & pay all his bills etc AND child maintainance, so my plan was to no claim anything enless I really needed it (I'm now on benefits & will have around £50 a week after bills/rent etc to buy all clothes, activities, food, petrol etc - think it can be done for now, but will be tight)
Should I just go ahead and take the waste of space for child maintainance or should I hold out & see if our relationship as single parents improves?
I should note he is wildly jealous, childish & selfish, mentally unstable & unreliable....... and is hating that I can survive without him! :)
Any advice welcome, thankyou! x
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NicolaElize · 09/06/2011 23:08
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