I have been apart from my DSon's Dad for just over a year.
We always had the problem that when DS was fussy about food, his Dad would give him apple juice, crisps, sweets, ice lollies and any junk to the extent that after a day at work I'd come home and know DS had eaten totally and utter junk all day. Biscuits, chicken nuggets, chips and bread with nutella on, my DS's Dad is very impressed to tell anyone his son has eaten in one day.
This was a problem then. Now, the nursery are saying we all need to do the same thing, no junk food, just healthy main meals and healthy snacks.
Ds is a fussy eater to the extreme. Now I've just got an email from my ex telling me he gave DS chocolate cereal, pancakes, cake, and nutella sandwhich. I couldn't believe it. He was emailing me to tell me how he hadn't given DS any snacks!!! We've emailed a bit, I replied saying the nursery mean offer things like cereal, fruit, maybe a sandwhich for lunch with cheese and ham in, and dinner with meat, veg and possibly rice.
He has come back saying children need sugar. This has been going on for so long. I don't seem to be able to educate him. He is undermining my attempts to feed him right. And the nursery's attempts.
So, I have offered DS chicken, rice and veg and some cheese for dinner. He only ate the cheese and he is asleep now. Tomorrow I hope after a full day at nursery he will have tried some of the meals. I just don't know what to do about the time he spends at his Dads. (Two days a week and two nights)
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HystericalMe · 08/06/2011 22:20
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