(fyi, I do hate the term baby daddy but I have used it so much in jest it has stuck...)
Ok, here goes, Ill try and keep it short..
Me and DS father were together on and off for about 3 years, sometimes with up to six months of not speaking at all between being together. He cheated on me, and we were not exactly lovely to eachother all the time. A lot of that in hindsight was to do with going out all the time and being drunk and fighting.
Anyway, I got pregnant, he was delighted, but 2 months later we split up. He tried to win me back, proposed (!) and sent flowers etc but I said no. I then had no contact with him except a brief spell of nasty emails on both sides, until DS was born.
DS father came to see him once, then did not show with no explanation 6 times in a row, so I stopped contact again.
DS is 10 months now and I have been speaking with EX and he has seen DS a few times. It has been going well and he does seem to have grown up a lot since DS was born, he says all the right things and offers me money etc.
However, he wants to get back with me. I love him, and always have since the start, but I don't know if its the right thing to do! My mind tells me the best thing for DS is for his parents to be happy and together and there for him, but can I just forget all that has happened so easily?
Small other issue is that I have been living with my mother since I split with EX and has helped me out LOADS, and she hates him, and would be very angry if I got back with him. Although I don't know that I should let her opinion cloud my judgement, I don't want to piss her off.
Anyway, so I'm confused. Any 3rd party opinion would be helpful, of someone not involved that doesn't hate DS's father with the fire of a thousand suns....
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WelshCat · 07/06/2011 21:01
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