Hi all I?m new here and this is my first post so please be genital with me.
I?m having an awful time of it, 4 weeks ago found out I was pregnant. Told my partner he said he didn?t want it. We have only been together for 8 months and I had a coil fitted so thought we were covered. In any case we didn?t talk about it for 2 or 3 weeks, when we did he?s adamant he?s breaking up with me and doesn?t want this baby. I?m now 10 weeks and have lots of time to sort things out. Fortunately I have a well paid job and can manage financially.
The parts I?m struggling with are all the lone hospital appointments, labour on my own, visits to mid wife?s etc....... yes I have many friends but that not how it should be. In addition to this 2 weeks after we broke up he said he?s getting used to the idea and he wants to be part of the baby?s life, I?m confused he doesn?t want a baby but he?ll be part of its life, in my state of hormonal confusion and hurt by him, my response was you either want this baby or not. I?m not allowing you to come and go as you see fit, seeing our baby around your cushy life, enjoying the fun parts only and when you don?t have your other child (he has a 3 year old, who he has every weekend).
Am I being unreasonable in my thinking? I know it?s still very early days and things can change, but I can?t see it.
Thanks for reading and any advice you may have.
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PinkM0nkey · 05/06/2011 19:00
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