I found out yesterday that my husbands sister is pregnant for the second time....nearly 10 years after her first child and conveniently in time to stay on benefits (am not knocking anyone on benefits as am on them myself at the moment) but just saying while most of us are looking for work now that our children are older, she goes out and gets pregnant and looks to me as if it's because she doesn't want to get a job (apparently there is no boyf on the scene).
Anyway, I found this out from a friend and not my soon to be x.
Backstory, when she was pregnant the first time, she was married (baby is not this mans son) and no one, not even my husband told me about the pregnancy. Was livid about that back then. In fact my mil did not even mention him AT ALL until he was six months old. Yes, they are weird. Then when I had my dd 10 mnths after he was born, my MIL used her birth as an opportunity to tell everyone 'oh, I'm already a Grandma'. Which really ticked me off!!
My MIL who used to text almost daily (this stopped once we started having problems), has not even seen my daughter since my x and I started to have problems in our relationship and not seen her granddaughter now since Oct 09, despite me trying to arrange (have now given up). My dd is so confused by the lack of contact. As little as 5 weeks ago I received a text from MIL asking me not to mention her son (my x) as it is upsetting and she does not want to keep in touch with him (even though, he actually saw her about 3 weeks ago). I had hardly said anything about him at all, only that we were trying to work out arrangements for contact. Now she wants to pretend to me he doesn't exist. MIL is all for the drama and is now going on about her own daughters pregnancy to people (not me obviously). These niggly things only touch the iceberg. Sometimes I think I should write a book about their weirdness. Add to the mix a grandad who hasn't seen his grandaughter in 2 years (MIL and him are divorced and he moved to USA about 20 years ago to avoid paying maintenance for my husband and his siblings) and my x's lovely looking brother who at 27 is so crippled by bi polar he never leaves the house (he lives in with his mother) and another sister who committed suicide 15 years ago and my MIL who has ever sickness going under the sun. I really hate his family. I am so pleased we are getting divorced.
And x is a dick for not telling me. Again.
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ginnycrls · 30/12/2010 10:34
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