I am finding things alittle difficult at the moment. Trying to keep the peace with everyone is bloody hard.
My Ex and I have been separated for 14 months and I filed for divorce at the beginning, leaving him in the marital home as his bahaviour was appalling and was starting to affect the kids.
He has been very money hungry as long as I have known him and it is one of the reasons I am divorcing him.
Recently He has been threatening suicide because he is upset at the amount of settlement I am offering him from the marriage.
I have tried to keep much of the details of the discussions and arguments we have had from the kids - the eldest is not daft, he seems to know more than I think he does.
Anyway, my son (11) has recently been saying he doesn't want to stay overnight with his Dad (it's one night every two weeks) - part of me wants to try and keep up the arrangement, however, with his fathers past behaviour, I feel I must respect his wishes.
My4 year old DD is pretty oblivious to it all.
The Ex's behaviour has been terrible at times, but part of me wants to give it the very best shot of an ok relationship with their Dad before it's too late.
Am I banging my head against a brick wall, and is it no good right from the start.
Sorry to sound so bewildered (sp) but I am so bogged down with it all I am emotionally exhausted. x
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Theyremybiscuits · 29/12/2010 19:36
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