DD's father is a waste of space, she sees him now and again but he goes away for weeks/months on end and then we get a call saying I'm back, are you free Saturday or whatever to meet with DD. Usually I'll say OK as DD really loves seeing him. I wouldn't care if he never got in touch again! Do you think she'll suffer without a proper father figure - how have other's DDs turned out without a man in their life so to speak? Also she's saying "I wonder what dad will give me for Xmas" - likely that we won't see him before then and if we do if he brings anything it'll be some tat - she'll like it I guess but what can I say to prepare her for not getting anything from him? I've had 7 years of this and when we don't hear from him it's like he doesn't exist and we go along quite happily then there's a phone call - I've actually sometimes not answered the phone when I'm pretty sure it's him and when we do speak I just say I was away or didn't get the message - bad I knnow but I just can't be bothered with him in our lives! Is this very selfish - it's just so much easier with the 2 of us.
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anothermum92 ·
12/12/2010 17:54
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