Title says it all really. DH and I on a trial separation since November. Still at relate, supposed to be trying to do 'date nights' but so far no date has been offered by DH.
I'm not optimistic that things will work out, he still doesn't see my issues with the relationship despite months of relate and years of discussions.
This xmas we've decided that he will come back and stay from xmas eve to boxing day, which is fine although no doubt will be a little awkward. DC's are 16, 5 and 1 so will be good for them. Brother and 4 dc's coming xmas day to stay over and get drunk and play games, so a good social time planned.
Thing is, then the plan is to go to my Mum's for 5 days over new year - she lives 5 hours away so can't do a shorter trip. DH wants to come and thinks it won't be too awkward. Mum has said ok, but expects him to join in the fun and do his bit.
Anyone got any advice as to how to get through it? DD (16) is dreading it as thinks it will be awkward. Home has been so calm and peaceful since he moved out and I'm not relishing the prospect of spending 5 days together and sharing a room again.
Am I just being selfish and mean?
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How do I cope - on a trial split but all going to visit my Mum over new year..
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scarlotti · 11/12/2010 21:21
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