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I am divorced!

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twopeople Mon 29-Nov-10 14:11:17

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Lemonstartree Mon 29-Nov-10 15:54:52

well done! I look forward to the day i can add my name to this thread! I hope its sooner than 3 years away....

twopeople Mon 29-Nov-10 19:58:18

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hairyfairylights Mon 29-Nov-10 20:57:04

Congratulations, I am jealous!!!!

shelleylou Mon 29-Nov-10 21:06:26

congratulations!! I got to wait 6 montsh before i can even apply envy

twopeople Mon 29-Nov-10 21:27:55

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shelleylou Mon 29-Nov-10 22:14:50

Because you cant apply for a divorce until you have been married for a year. H left 2 weeks ago

lilac21 Mon 29-Nov-10 22:56:24

Congrats twopeople! Does that mean you'll change your username to onedelightednewlysingleperson?!

BEAUTlFUL Tue 30-Nov-10 08:36:26

Shelleylou, can't you get it annulled instead?

shelleylou Tue 30-Nov-10 08:41:28

I dont think so. Think that can only happen if we haven't had sex shame only a little doesn't count

BEAUTlFUL Tue 30-Nov-10 08:44:24

Have you checked? I think Renee Zellweger had her brief marriage annulled and I bet they banged like mad.

shelleylou Tue 30-Nov-10 08:46:15

Yes i have hers a list of reasons for an annullment none apply to me unfortunately.

* It has not been consummated (i.e. you have not had sex with each other since you were married);
* At the time of the marriage your partner was already married to someone else;
* One of you was under 16 years of age when you got married;
* You have inter-married (i.e. married a close relative);
* Your partner had a sexually transmitted infection at the time of the marriage and they were aware of this at the time, but you were not;
* Your partner was pregnant with another person's child at the time of the marriage and they were aware of this at the time, but you were not.

BEAUTlFUL Tue 30-Nov-10 08:46:21

Ah, I just read about annullment... It's not as simple as i thought. Carry on then, as you were. blush

shelleylou Tue 30-Nov-10 08:50:04

Its alright made me check it out properly lol. Oh well just over 5 months left to wait. Oh its ironic should be counting down to the first anniversairy for a good reason lol

twopeople Tue 30-Nov-10 10:16:10

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shelleylou Wed 01-Dec-10 14:22:43

I'm not sure what it will be filed as not really sure what would be best that or irrecacilable (sp) differences.

twopeople Wed 01-Dec-10 19:00:15

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shelleylou Wed 01-Dec-10 19:08:59

Its not something i planned on doing let alone after this amount of time. yes will probably be unreasonable behaviour then

twopeople Wed 01-Dec-10 19:14:59

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shelleylou Fri 03-Dec-10 01:16:30

I also know its the best thing for both of us. We were fine before we got married i dont know whether it jus fizzled out or marriage wasn't for us but if i have learnt one thing in just over a year is that life is short grab every chance with both hands and make the most of life.

twopeople Wed 08-Dec-10 19:44:27

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passmyglassplease Wed 08-Dec-10 20:44:01

Congratulations grin

I hope to be in the same club in the very near future, it has been a long and painful process, but in the long run worth it.

Scruffyhound Wed 08-Dec-10 22:49:53

Congratulations! grin
I hope your happy I know I was 3 yrs now and divorced for 2. Yey!! Best thing I ever did accept have my DS! Heres to a future of fun! Im with someone else now happy and expecting another baby never thought that would happen! been with him for 2 1/2 yrs yey! We just agreed to say we lived apart but it was his fault it just ment by doing this it went through quicker. He was a knob!

shelleylou Thu 09-Dec-10 01:33:41

twopeople, my brother died suddenly just over a year ago in his early 20's so that has taught met hat. Itry to live every day as much as possible and make every second count.

twopeople Thu 09-Dec-10 12:38:58

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