Exp aranged a few weeks ago to take dd to her football practice this saturday morning.
every time i see him or talk to him he keeps saying things like, find out if dd really wants to go to football, or will it be on if its cold, when will they let you know?, or whats happening saturday, is she going to football, let me know if they cancel.
last night he returned her and as soon as they walk through the door he says dd doesnt want to go to football she sayss its too cold!! ???she is 4 yrs old and not sure she is able to predict the weather for saturday or make that descission on weds for god sake. so he keeps saying to her, you dont want to do you? and she just kind of nodding in agreement. So I tell them well its only weds, so im not sure we can decide about sturday just yet. Unless come saturday there is a good enough reason then she will go.
he then went on and on about how her will neeed to wrap up if he needs to stand out in the cold.
so then he leaves and says let me know about football on saturday....I just bloody did.
now im tempted to text him and say ill take her you pick her up after. as i dont want him interfering with her activities like this and making her tell me she doesnt want to things that she clearly does just to suite him. if he doesnt want to go fine im happy to.
so what would others do just tell him she is going and make him endure it or take her myself?
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tomhardyismydh · 25/11/2010 10:01
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