Hi everyone, after 10 years in NW London I am considering making the big move - to another side of the town.
I am of Western European origin and divorcing my hb of Indian origin. We have a daughter who is due to enter nursery school next year. Now, come the difficult decisions.
Ex wants to stay in a very Asian area in NW London. The options seem to be private schools with a strong Asian demographic or state schools with more mixed backgrounds, but plenty of underperforming students and not great performance. He has family in the area, which he uses to justify his point. I am not happy with this arrangement. The divorce was mostly caused by pressure from his family towards raising dd according to his culture. The situation has become worse after starting the divorce process and the last thing I would like to happen is to see dd raised as part of a 99% Asian minority. I am already struggling to make sure that the other part of her identity - ie. European/British is taken into account in her upbringing.
I would like to move into an area with a more balanced ethnical mix and am impressed by SW London in general: Richmond, Twickenham, Kingston.
It looks like we can't afford private school at the moment. Also, we are planning to look after dd 50-50 ie. shared care even during the week.
How do we reconcile this? Has anyone been in a remotely similar situation? Would I be able to pull through such a move? I am aware that there is a mountain of research to do on good areas and schools on SW side, but that is where I would at least want to try to build my future.
ANY advice whatsoever will be greatly appreciated.
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Stellarann · 11/10/2017 10:38
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