My confidential information given out by headmistress

[Rara1210]

Has my confidential information been breached ? Can the head of school share your privacy with her partner ? Then the partner ask my partner if it's true ?
Please help as I'm quite anxious about the matter.

[Silenenutans]

No, of course not. I think you should ask for an appointment to see the head. Set out, simply and factually, what you know and can demonstrate has happened (avoid talking about feelings, speculation or interpretations), then ask for her explanation - and listed carefully.

By all means take notes. You don't have to agree to anything at the time. You can say you'd like to take some time to think about your next steps.

[Silenenutans]

Sorry, listen not listed.

Anyway, give her a chance to explain. Her position and interpretation may not be what you expect. Once you know that, you'll be able to decide how to respond.

[PattiStanger]

Of course they shouldn't do it but that doesn't mean it can't happen

Can you prove the breach?