Sex and Husband

[Holly232]

I have been with my OH for 10 years now and for the past 3 years my head has started to block out the thought of sex. I feel that i want it and i want my husband but when it comes to it i feel that my head keeps saying no that i dont actually want it. Once we actually do have sex its the same old things and i dont feel i want to try anything new incase im no good at it or i am a let down. My OH keeps trying stuff and wants to bring back the passion, heat and excitment but i just feel like i have a barrier. Does anyone else have this problem or any advice

[FetchezLaVache]

Did you mean to post this on the North Yorkshire board? Not that we don't have sex up here, just you'll probably get more answers on the main board.

...You sound terrified of sex and very conflicted. Has something happened to knock your sexual confidence? Have you considered counselling?