I have been with my husband for 21 years, married 7 and we have a toddler. Until 6 years ago his family loved me! i have the best dil plaques to prove it. My sil went through a pretty crap time of separating with her husband and both myself and hubs were gher 24/7. I grew quite close to her and she met a lovely guy at my hen party which was all good. Then all of a sudden..no contact, stopped visiting and when i enquired with her mum/dad was anything the matter they said she was in a bad place. We chatted and i thought everything was ok but has never been the same since. She can be quite sharp tongued to me and really obviously talks directly to my husband and daughter. We keep trying to let it go buts its so difficult. She has cut me out of photographs and given birthday presents like wordy plaques to my husband about how much she adores him and he cant get his head around it as she ia mostly rude to him too. The reason i came on here is because he had a big birthday recently and she arrived at our house whilst i was at work with a birthday cake and candle and their parents and did the whole singing thing. I had a cake for him which my daughter and i had made and it made ours look crap.