Hi I live abroad with husband and DC 3 in Spain. We live in one large town where many people from Husband country live (husband not brit). However I can count the brits on one hand that live here. I have been here for one year permanently whereas OH has lived here for 3-4 and has a good job, cafes specifically for people from his country etc.
I found a part time job, and made one or two british friends from there. One of them is a mum with a small DC also but she is always busy with her family and our timetables never seem to fit. She is also shy and hasn't really opened up. I have another friend who is also from my OH country and neither her spanish or english is very good so she just babbles on the whole time about herself and I dont always understand her. But sometimes im so desperate for company i just meet her anyway.
The spanish mums at my daughters school are all in little groups and dont really speak to any of the foreigners. all the other foreigners are in their grouos
I feel so crap as it is as I know Ive got a long lonely summer ahead. Then today my OH decided to point out to me 'Gosh you've been here for a year and you dont have any friends'. I told him thats really insensitive and he said come on its just fact.
Honestly sometimes I just feel like packing up me and DD and going home. What should I do? feel so lonely.
Also am I just being over sensitive or should I grow a backbone regarding what my OH said?
By the way I do all the usual -ie. park and fairs etc. No playgroups here
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veryconfused1 · 23/06/2010 17:00
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