DH is really struggling with the fact that since we moved to Geneva, he has had to do all of the running to keep in touch with friends back home.
He has several colleagues who he thought were friends (male and female), but now rarely have time for him and never phone, email or text. They are fine if he phones, but never phone back if they see that he has phoned and not reached them.
He also has one particular friend who only phones when he wants advice (which he promptly ignores).
It is upsetting for him. Easy to say that he should dump them, but he is an incredibly loyal guy, does not make friends easily and takes a while to warm up to new folk. So when he makes friends he really would like to keep them.
Is this a common thing when you move abroad do you think, or are his friends just nobs?
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MmeLindt · 15/04/2010 10:25
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