Hey,
I could really do with some advice from you guys please.
So myself and DP moved to the Netherlands last year and we had our little baby boy earlier this year.
However, I am really struggling to be happy here. Whilst becoming a new mum has been an amazing (and challenging ) experience so far, I really miss the UK! I suspect I need to give things more time, but my gut tells me I just need to be back home, around everything that is familiar.
We moved here due to DPs new job, which was an opportunity he really couldn’t turn down.
The position is likely to last 3-5 years, with the possibility of it becoming permanent.
Whilst I support his decision to move here, I really am struggling to accept that our life is here now and regret that we are not raising our son in the UK, around the support of my friends and family (DP is Belgian).
What I would like to know is - has anyone lived in a separate country to their partner whilst having a LO.
NL really isn’t far to travel to/from the UK, and we could take it in turns to travel to see each other at weekends.
However, Am I being selfish to even consider this?
I have sacrificed my career, home, friends and family to make the move here, however I feel so guilty for wanting to move back home.
Any advice would be much appreciated x
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Crackers7 · 04/06/2019 15:06
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