It's been 7 months since we moved to NY, I've finally gotten my EAD work permit and can now look for a job but I don't know where to start. I worked in a niche role in the charity sector in London, a sector which is huge in NY but I can't figure out how to break into here. I feel I gave up my life and career for DH to have this opportunity to work here but I can't figure out how to pick up my life again here. I've been told the only way to get a job is by personal connections, I've never gotten a job in London like that, and personal connections take time to build up and where do you even start?. I feel lost and down and I would appreciate any advice from others who have had to start over again. No DCs, we will start TTC next year which again makes me annoyed we are living here in the land of no maternity provisions and then I think, why did I move here again? I keep going in circles and its not good since I then get down again, I'm not unhappy here, I just don't know how to build MY life again. DH is fine, at work, doing well etc.
I've been volunteering with an animal shelter as that's as the only volunteering I was allowed to do by the company lawyers. I like it but it's far from what I did.
The other US v U.K. thread is a mix of too depressing to read and most experiences seem so far away from what I'm experiencing that it feels like I'm in different country. I don't even know where to turn to express these thoughts, other "trailing spouses" (hate the term but it's useful as a description) that I know personally either moved with their companies or had kids and decided not to work or found it easy to get a job as their work was more general (ie admin assistant or exec PA type things). I fit into none of the boxes, and am really struggling with being at home. I loved my job but the whole market/industry is so different I don't know where to start looking. Sorry this a jumble of thoughts, it's been a rough few days.
TLDR: how do you start over again when you don't know anyone and without emotionally crashing all the time?
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Winterinthesun · 09/11/2018 14:29
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