We have lived in our adopted country for going on 9 years now. Dh's home country, children don't remember living anywhere else...
I have struggled the whole time we have lived here. I have hated it, tolerated it, liked it, but never loved it. I have tried so hard to accept we will be here until the children finish school at least. I have succeeded to a certain extent too.
I have had a few deaths in my family over the last year and it has made me realise that I have less and less connection with MY home now.
We have a lot of 'international' friends and recently a whole bunch of them are moving home or to somewhere new. My gut feeling is jealousy that they get to leave. How sad is that?
It has brought all my homesickness to the surface again. I feel I'm just biding my time here until I can move on.
These feelings just sit under the surface, even though I think I have them well under control for the most part. One person says they're moving and 'BAM' I'm back to square one.
Just feeling sad and sorry for myself
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discombobulatednibblesnarf · 22/05/2018 08:09
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