Background: We've been in the US for around 2.5 years, and in theory only have another 6 months to go on our current placement. Three kids ages 10, 7 and 5.
Overall we have had a great experience. I love being an expat and the sense of freedom we have. I hadn't realised how stifling our safe, cosy little village life was back home. We have also been very lucky to have had some amazing opportunities to travel while we have been here.
I feel very flat (understatement) at the prospect of going home. I'm just not ready for our adventure to be over. Ideally I'd like to extend and stay longer, or even go on and do another posting somewhere else. But to get our eldest in to our first choice of secondary (all of our local schools back home are oversubscribed) we need to be back in the UK this October. Stay any longer and we risk him not getting a place locally at all.
The other expats we know here are very laid back about moving their children around, and I guess that has been influencing us to not be overly concerned with the school situation in the UK. But I was reading a thread in chat this morning about a mother who's 13 year old is suffering terribly after a move within the UK, and it was a bit of a wake up call that perhaps everything won't just work out OK, and that we need to prioritise getting our children settled back home for their own wellbeing.
I guess my question is, if you have experience of moving older children, how have they adapted? Any regrets? Would you do it again?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Whether you're considering emigrating or an expat abroad, you'll find likeminds on this forum.
Living overseas
Moving with teens
6 replies
cheeseismydownfall · 25/03/2018 15:13
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.