DP and I (both British) are engaged. Someone at work has mentioned him going on secondment for a year to one of their US offices (not sure where - think he could choose from several of the big cities). My gut instinct is this is a non-starter; our wedding is booked for 18 months' time (unlikely to happen any sooner tbh) and I want to be trying to get pregnant some time soon after that.
From what I can understand, I wouldn't be able to work if I went with DP and we were unmarried (assuming I can get a visa at all). Would I be in a worse position if I were to get pregnant out there? I've tried looking online but everything is a bit overwhelming and confusing. What about if we were to have a baby before going (but still be unmarried)?
It isn't something we have ever spoken about doing before, so it won't be the end of the world if it isn't practical to go in the next year or so. I'm sure there is someone at work who will help him to sort the logistics out but I want to get things straight in my head before we go any further.
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DandelionAndBedrock · 17/08/2017 15:03
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