Aarrgghh. We have lived abroad for 6 years and bought a house 18 months ago with the intention of staying. I am struggling as I cannot seem to get myself out of the rut I am in. I have been a SAHM for 10 years and now I am feeling that this has cost me more than I thought it would, I feel like I have nothing outside of the children and house.
I tried to retrain but never found the time between washing, cooking, ferrying children around (age 13, 10 and 8) to study plus I didn't like the course. I am desperately trying to find the cash to try again but afraid that I will be unable to find the motivation and time to study. Also, even if I retrain, the tax implications of me working could mean that we are worse off than we are now. The bureaucracy here is a nightmare.
I know why we moved here and know that moving back (new location) would be hard. Since buying our own house, we are burning through our savings and I don't know that we will be easily able to sell again, property takes a long time to move, think 2 to 3 years. I don't know that I can cope with the stress of uprooting our children and finding a new home, new schools, new friends, activities etc etc etc. I think it might break us.... but equally staying here might break me...
What do I need to think about...
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ForgivenessIsDivine · 17/08/2017 12:24
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