Sorry, NC for this, and in living overseas, as I want realistic answers from those not living down the road from relatives.
My Grandmother passed away yesterday. She was in her 90s, and after seeing her at Christmas, I didn't think she would make it far past her birthday (she didn't make it). I'm 5000 miles away, there is no possibility of DH getting leave, and very little likelihood of getting before/after school care for a few days (Nanny culture here, so will all have own charges).
Do people living the sort of distances that scrape into long haul away from home go back for funerals?
If it makes any odds, there is precedent for not flying round the world for funerals. My mother didn't go to her Father's cremation, but did make it over to the US to scatter the ashes, and no one from the UK went to NZ for my Aunts funeral.
Thank-you for all thoughts or experiences.
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Funerals: Go back, or stay away?
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HomeInSadness · 25/01/2016 17:41
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