DH and I have lived abroad before, but pre-DC. We now have 2 DC (3 and 1 currently). I've recently applied for a job in Switzerland.
Usually DM lays guilt on thick and fast but has been surprisingly excited and supportive over this role. DF (my parents are divorced) told me today, half jokingly, he hopes I don't get it.
It's caught me off guard as he is usually so laid back. I know they'd miss us and be reluctant to see us go but it's really made me sad. I see both sides of my parents weekly and PIL every 2-3 weeks. All help with childcare when I'm working (I'm not atm).
I just feel guilty now as it isn't just me and DH anymore, it is the kids too. DF and DSM don't have a big life, so really dote on my DC so us moving would really create a huge gap in their lives. I know that's not my responsibility as such but after being so excited about this job prospect I now feel like I'm being selfish and ridiculous.
How do you deal with reconciling all this?
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ReloKayShon · 10/11/2015 13:23
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