We're off to the Netherlands as a family in December and we've sort of come full circle with regards to our Year 11, 15 year old daughter. Our younger girls are aged 11, 10 and 7.
I would rather we all move together, start learning Dutch asap and generally support each other getting to grips in our new environment from Day 1.
My eldest is a lovely, pretty easy going teen, who isn't totally against moving (to be honest, I'm getting more tears from my 11 year old who has just started at a great secondary), and is actually looking forward to the challenge of doing an IB instead of 'A' levels at an international school over there. However, as is to be expected, some of her peers have encouraged her to explore the possibility of staying here for 6 months in order to finish her exams/go to 'May' ball (depending on their priorities, haha).
I wasn't keen at first, thinking where would she stay (no local family) and who in their right mind would want another teen to worry about. Then DH and I discussed it and agreed that maybe, if it were possible, perhaps taking the exams rather than twiddling her thumbs (ok, learning Dutch and doing a few months of the middle year diploma program ;-) ) until her IB started next Aug/Sept would be a good idea.
A couple of friends parents seem open to the idea, but after doing some research I don't think it's possible because of her age - she won't be 16 until May. We had a look at the legal implications and I don't think you're allowed to look after another child under 16 for more than 28 days, and obviously I don't want to do it under the radar and potentially get all those involved into trouble.
Unfortunately we don't have the money to keep 2 households going, so I can't stay here with her, and anyway I'll need to be in The Netherlands with the others, so DH can go to work. :-)
So my question is, does anyone have a child that moved to Europe from the UK during secondary education and completed their IB, went to uni etc without any problems? If there were issues, what were they?
Thanks!
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