I have been in France for more thean 7 years. ( moved here with DHs job). I was happy in the UK, had a good job, nice house etc but it was always a dream to live in France so was more than happy to move with my husbands job.
I was a bit concerned about giving up my job and being bored but for the most part that did not happen and I have been very happy here for all that time. Had some friends, learning the language ( ongoing process) hiking etc.
Recently though a few things changed. All but one of my friends have left and the opportunity for meeting new ones is more limited now ( met all my friends taking my children to school). One of my closest friends who I see every day has just left and this has had a huge affect on me and I really miss her.
I love the street where I live and have good neighbours but now most of them are also leaving shortly.
I started some new activiites to counteract all this but finally admitted to myself that I was not enjoying them at all and they were making me feel more depressed ( not really fitting in, fed up with people saying after many, many weeks " sorry what's your name" and taking over the activity).
Perimenopausal and emotions all over the place as well.
My DH is not so happy so at work at the moment ( up to this point he was very happy with work) but this may change at any time. He is generally very happy here and would like to stay ( but only if I am happy).
Overall I love where I am. Lovely area, great weather when I wake up I love where I am, the peace, the walks the views, my house and feel I may regret moving back to UK and not sure if it's the right thing to do.
Anyone else had/has this? Not really sure what I am asking but just wanted to see what others people have done.
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Thisissomething · 09/06/2015 12:46
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