I've started a thread on schools in New Jersey, which has got me thinking about the settling in aspect.
I've lived in NYC, and found people really friendly, but didn't make many true, deep friends. Lots of people to say 'hi' to, and chat to. I felt like this was because a lot of the ladies I met had been there years and formed friendships...they didn't need to go for a coffee with a new friend as they already had busy, established lives. (I'm not moaning...these were all nice women!)
We currently live somewhere where expats (from all over the world) tend to mix, and not so much with locals. I think because we've all turned up new and friend-less, I find people here so friendly, have made a wonderful number of true, trusted, friends. People are very open to going for coffee/dinner with someone you've just met, which means you don't feel 'new and no-mates' for too long!
I know living in New Jersey would be moving to a more settled community, where people have years to form friendships. For those of you living in places like that, how did you find settling in? Or am I wrong, and experiences are that even in established communities people are open to forming new friendships?
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Mummysaysno · 20/06/2013 00:49
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