Living abroad, would you recommend it?(52 Posts)
DH and and I are both teachers (he is in middle/senior management, I am not) and are considering leaving the UK.
Our reasons are: deterioration of work conditions, crappish school around where we live, cost of living, for the negative ones and the positive ones are: looking for an adventure, giving our children better opportunities and above all we love travelling (or we certainly did before the kids were born). We have 2 DC, one 6 mo the other 26 mo.
Have you made the move yourselves? Was it good for you? Did you regret it? Any teachers out there who worked in a international school and who are willing to share some advice?
Thank you for any feedback/views.
Hmm. We moved to Belgium. On one level I don't regret it at all. It is much more family friendly here and the afterschool/holiday club set up makes it much easier to be a WOHM. There is lots to do, lots of expats, and it is easy to travel about Europe. Schools seem to be good and my dd is now bilingual.
On the downside, it was HARD to make new friends, the cost of living/tax regime here is much worse than the UK, and we sold up to rent here. My dd sees herself as Belgian now, but I certainly don't. The UK might have its issues but it is still home. And at the end of the day, it is same shit different country, maybe exacerbated by the language barrier.
For my dd, the move was a great one. I am settled and have some lovely friends, but not sure I want to retire here....
Portofino is right, same shit, different country does apply wherever you move to
We've done the expat thing for many years extensively, and have ended up in a simple, rural life back here, which is proving to be better than anywhere we ever lived!
if you can get around always being the stranger in the strange land, then go for it!
equally, better to try it, than sit in the nursing home in later years wishing you had done it!
good luck with whatever you decide (but would recommend renting out your home while youre away, just in case...)
Abroad is an awfully big place. Are you thinking Europe, ME, SE Asia, anglophone country?
There are places I would live/return to and places I wouldn't.
Realistically you would need to be moving very fast to get a job in an international school to start next year. The fairs start very soon.
Don't ever move because you don't like the UK, most places are much worse, more expensive and lack things such as free schools, healthcare and social security. Only move abroad if you have a deep desire to live in the country concerned - otherwise it will same crap different country.
Your reasons for wanting to leave on the UK are a bit dubious sorry - e.g poor work conditions, where I live you get only 15 days annual leave, working week is at least 10 hours longer, only 10 days paid sick leave per year (drs note required for every day off which you have to pay for), only 12 weeks maternity leave unpaid, crippling healthcare costs, no unemployment or any other type of benefit available, the UK has one of the best working conditions in the world.
Thank you all. We are thinking Asia or Latin America. We don't own our house so we would not need to sell.
We like the UK but fancy a change. I assume (perhaps wrongly) that the working conditions as teachers in an overseas/international school will be similar to those in the independent sector in the UK. Thank you again for your no nonsense talk. I appreciate it.
The NHS seems shit til you don't have it. I think healthcare is amazing here. But we have insurance and have to pay to see the GP, though I can get a same day appointment, and claim it most of it back after. I have still not worked out what happens if you have no money....I know when a child at dd's school developed leukaemia, they did fundraising to help with his medical costs....
International school does not automatically mean British school or that your degrees are transferable at all. I speak from
bitter experience, and we were only moving around Europe!
In any case I would research very carefully, also offset your future income against cost of living, including rent, healthcare, childcare and cost of travelling home in an emergency.
Living abroad can be a very enriching experience, but the grass will always be greener on the other side if that's your main motivation. Same shit in a different place covers it nicely!
We have done it for 12 years. DD was born in Oman. My DH is a teacher, he has always taught at International schools.
I'd be very choosy about which country you want to go to, and look very carefully at the schools you apply to.
In our experience, not for profit ones are the way to go. Stupidly, he didn't take his advice for the one he is currently teaching in.
Normally class sizes are smaller, this one has 28 per class. Also check the tax situation. In some countries we've been to, he hasn't paid tax, the housing and health insurance has been covered by the school, and in Oman we had an interest free car loan for two years.
Your children are a great age to do it for 2 years and see what you think. Depending on your children's personalities and routines and the climate you choose, you may still find yourself at home a lot and not swanning around eating out and the like. That's ok though. If something went wrong health wise you could return to the UK for NHS treatment (this option was open to us when my DS was diagnosed with a medical condition but we decided to stay where we are and pay for treatment privately).
Your lives will be richer than if you didn't give it a go and you don't have to make any permanent decisions.
If you have are thinking of Asia or Latin America , it can be trying on top of everything else if you only speak English at the moment. Do you and your DH speak any other languages ? Clare
We lived in Switzerland for a few years. Lifestyle was great but hard to integrate into local society so reliant on the expat community which rather limits your comfort zone. Local rules and regulations which require respect and little recourse when things go awry. In many ways it felt like we lived in parallel to the locals rather than being accepted as part of the community.
Teachers at the local International School seemed to have a good deal ie. free school places although I think this may have changed in subsequent contracts as that was 10 years ago. There were also exceptions such as if the child needed a special needs programme the parent-teacher would bear the full cost. Plus you have to take into account cost of living/lifestyle expectations (in ME you may live within compounds or specific expat areas and may often have housemaids/au pair), insurances, local tax arrangements, private healthcare, cost of flights home etc. International schools could be hard work as turnover (children and staff) can be high and you are having to cater for a variety of children with EAL needs and who have come from a diverse background eduationally, so not all are at the same starting point each year. I think the main recruitment fairs take place in Jan/Feb so nothing to stop you/dh going along to find out what is out there.
We're four months in to living in Singapore which is a very gentle introduction to SE Asia. We've had ups and downs but mostly ups. We wanted an adventure. We're really glad we did it, so far. It gets harder as the kids get older. My DSs are 9 and 7 and they have found it tougher.
Just research, research and research and then follow your gut feeling.
you could go for one stint surely.You don't have a house to sell and your dc are both too small for you to have to worry about local schooling options. It might depend for me on the ease with which I think at least one of you, probably dh since he is on a higher level can realistically hope to get a good job when you return to the UK. And that will always be a gamble.
Safety, healthcare and the cost of housing, running a car would be the main concerns. If that all looks viable, I would consider trying it out as a short-term option and seeing how that goes.
If you are going to be a SAHM while you are away, you may find it harder to get back into a job on return. So if you do decide to go, perhaps see if there is some way to get some more qualifications while you are away.
Are you both officially qualified teachers of children (rather than EFL teachers etc)? Because if you fancy living in Berlin, I'm pretty sure both our junior school and senior school are looking for qualified English teachers, although the secondary school wants someone to specialise in music. It's in the state system, which is relatively well paid , excellent health coverage (much better than the UK) and a v exciting place to live, without being too 'foreign'. Both schools are bilingual, which means that half the subjects are taught in English by English native speakers and half in German by Germans. So maths, for instance, is always taught in German (ie not so good if your special subject is maths).
i dont think it would be harder for OP to get into a job on her return
employers look favourably on overseas working, and many employers do also look favourably on SAHM career breaks. Of course it depends on what you want to do OP, but I wouldnt not move overseas just because you fear what may happen on your return. Much better to cross that bridge when you come to it
I know if I had the choice of recruiting a mother who had lived abroad, raised kids over there and supported a family in a foreign land, these are vastly superior life skills than someone who had not taken the chance, and used their money to build an extension on their house instead of using it to fund an overseas relocation...life skills are often more appealing to an employer than we realise
The teachers in Hk seem pretty happy with life. money is good, holidays are long, and the kids are well behaved- what's not to like? my friends brother teaches in an international school in Chiangmai and loves it. Language usually isn't a massive problem in Asia as English is pretty widely spoken.
Have a look at the TES now as the schools are already recruiting for August 2013. Also look on the TES overseas discussion board for comments about the different schools.
The pay and benefits vary hugely from school to school so you need to do your research.
if you teach in an international school, it isn't going to be that important to have mastered other languages. You'll be helped to settle in. Part of the fun of it will be getting the hang of enough of the local language that will actually need to use when you are there IMO
My eyes are constantly on the TES. Never thought about the forums though, will have a look tonight.
We are both "officially" qualified (PGCE, QTS) and are looking outside of Europe.
I teach in KL and absolutely love it. We've only been here a few months, plan to stay a few years then look elsewhere - possibly South America.
There are a few things I don't like about Malaysia (the smell, mostly!) but our standard of living here is FAR higher than at home. School is amazing - no-one is stressed, no OFSTED, no crazy beurocracy, lovely kids who want to learn, excellent resources. That said, you can (I hear) come across shocking international schools.
My advice would be to look on the TES 'teaching abroad' forums for discussions about where to go. Decide on a few locations and target schools individually. Look on their websites for positions and send in your CVs (with personalised covering letter) for them to keep on file. TES doesn't have a lot of the jobs. Do limit yourself to '1st' tier schools, or maybe 2nd at a push. TES will give you a good idea of salary expectations.
To give you an idea of package here: Similar salary to UK plus housing allowance, annual return flights home for family, free schooling (for up to 2 kids but have know to increase this), full medical care.
Is t really competitive to get a job in a good school?
I only applied to this one so I'm not sure I could say, but I helped with the recruitment process recently for another, and I'd say there were lots of applicants but not many good ones. Teaching couples are preferred (more likely to stay - stability). Write an excellent CV and do a good Skype interview, should be fine. Depends on your subject of course.
Forgot to mention shipping allowance in benefits package. Was about 750 gbp - enough for 10 medium 10 large boxes and a few outsized things. (Sale at shipping co.)
This sounds pretty reasonable. DH is aiming for management positions and I am a "straight" teacher. Fingers crossed!
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