I know there have been a few crazy threads about expats and domestic help, but we're about to move to Singapore, and the basis on which we're doing it will require us to have a live-in helper (i.e. what we'll be required to be doing will mean we need live-in childcare, and I'll be working so will need some domestic support)
While looking for a house, I've been looking for somewhere that has adequate space and privacy for a helper.
I've also been turning over the idea of the morality behind it. On one hand, I see the wages are relatively low (although with the cost of accommodation, I can see things might even out for a live-in maid). And there's also the issue about whether to employ someone who's left their own children in their home country. Ought I avoid women with children (which would actually be an illegal practice in the UK), or just accept that she is able to make her own decision as to what's best for her family?
And ought I pay over the 'going rate' - and if so, by how much? Is it common to do this?
There doesn't seem to be much in the way of babysitting etc (probably because live-in help is so common) and we'd need someone very reliable and regularly, so a live-in option seems best for us.
But I am wondering about the suggestion that importing domestic helpers from the developing world is exploitative (which I think perhaps risks over-simplifying things, but grateful for views), or whether it's offering income and an opportunity to someone (and their family) who would otherwise be living in poverty.
Grateful for any experiences or advice.
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Could you talk to me about employing a maid/helper in Singapore?
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OffOffandAway · 12/07/2010 20:42
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