Emphysema Advice - not eating or sleeping

My dad had COPD (emphysema). He couldn't eat when he had an infection or a flare up. On a good day food was little and often. He had one of those remote controlled beds and slept pretty much sitting up. It's an absolute arsehole of a disease.

@MorningsEleven

So sorry your dad suffered with this disease - it’s a particularly awful disease.

My dad had a chest infection over Christmas which started the not eating / not sleeping but strangely he’s not too breathless to eat or sleep but more has lost his appetite / can’t get to sleep

My BIL has emphysema. He spends all night sitting up in a recliner chair,
watching TV / dozing because he can't lie down ( due to breathing problems). Same with eating - can't eat anything large , or a full meal, due to the breathing problems. He lives on cups of tea and sweets.

I don't think there is anything that you can do to change this - sorry I can't suggest anything. I think the eating / sleeping thing is pretty common in people with emphysema.

Thanks @Birdie6

My dad denies being too breathless but I’m not convinced 🤔

So sorry to hear about your BIL - thank you for answering

Thank you unicorn. Does your Dad have a stash of prophylactic antibiotics? Mine always did so that he could battle an infection as soon as it started. The no appetite/not sleeping could be linked to anxiety, which is a common side effect of COPD. Breathlessness makes you panic, which makes you feel nauseous and more breathless and you get into a downward spiral. Is he able to access pulmonary rehab? My Dad went for so long that they gave him a job.

@MorningsEleven

We are seeing a nurse for a review soon so going to ask about an emergency stash of antibiotics and steroids.

He’s on the waiting list for pulmonary rehab - he was diagnosed a year ago and he was ok initially.

I think you are right about anxiety - he’s never suffered before but that means nothing given that he has this disease 😔