A good friend of mine is having really shit time. Husband left her before Christmas and she has now had cancer diagnosis. She is having an urgent op on Monday, and I assume there'll be either chemo or radiotherapy or both to follow. I've seen ideas on gifts I could get, and have asked her about childcare (the Dad still has contact with the kids so I guess he'll be first choice to look after them), but I'm wondering if there are any other practical things I can do to help? I've obviously asked her if there is anything, but I know people don't often actually say what they need. So offering to make up some meals and cleaning is about as far as I've got, does this sound helpful? Is there anything else?
I have young children myself so I'm not sure how much time I will have, but I want to offer what I can, and perhaps rally round some mutual friends who I know will want to help. Any ideas gratefully received
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Life-limiting illness
Practical help for single mum with cancer.
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Bodenshmoden · 17/03/2017 23:41
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