Anyone?!
My mum has been in ITU for 2 weeks. She went in with pneumonia and a serious underlying heart condition. She was unable to manage without the ventilator on the one occasion they removed the breathing tube.
She is perfectly compus mentus (sp?) when not sedated. No one has told her directly that if she can't manage without the ventilator there will very soon come a point at which the doctors will remove it and all other care anyway and she will die soon afterwards as a result.
I am distraught about this. It feels like the greatest deceit, albeit to protect her. But shouldn't she know? She's not mentally incompetent, unconscious or brain dead. Should they not try again to wean her from the ventilator or continue treatment is that's what she wishes if she's made aware of the situation? And how can family challenge the doctors on her behalf? Please help?
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Life-limiting illness
Withdrawal of life support from competent elderly woman with heart failure who is unable to wean from the ventilator
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Twozealotmorethan1 · 16/01/2017 20:25
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