My mother got diagnosed with Kidney Cancer last year that had spread to her lungs, they said it was incurable at that point. She had her Kidney removed and has been on treatment for the mets on her lungs which are now stable. However, they have now said she looks to have mets on the outside of her stomach and bowel. We need to wait another 3-4 weeks for a CT scan to check if the new mets are progressive but I think the docs believe they are anyway. I just don't know how to cope with all this and can't imagine what it would be like to not have my mum here. I also have a 16 month old daughter who was born just before the diagnosis. Whilst me and my husband had talked about having another child in the near-ish future, I just don't know if I could go through with that as it would be highly unlikely that my mother would ever be able to meet him/her. Sorry for spilling my guts, I don't have anyone close to talk to so I needed to get it out on here. Any words of wisdom would be much appreciated as just feeling a little lost and devastated at the moment. Thank you.
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