How are you all dealing with the festivities?I would like to shut DH and I away and pretend that It isn't happening but I have a daughter with young children so that won't be possible.
I hate everything about Christmas this year because it will be DH's last one. I don't want to put up decorations or anything. This afternoon I am writing our cards and he wants me to tell people we don't see very often how ill he is and the prlobable outlook. Writing that over and over again fills me with dread.
My daughter would like us to spend the day with them but I know he is not up to it, very weak and people exhaust him. I know she will understand if I turn down her kind offer but spending the day with just the telly trying to make us jolly sounds awful.
I know you ladies will understand that although I love DH to bits and would do anything to make him feel more comfortable, sometimes I feel like a character in a black and white film sitting in a prison cell playing dominoes with the condemned man and trying to keep his spirits up.
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Life-limiting illness
Coping with Christmas
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drudgewithagrudge · 07/12/2014 14:29
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