My wife is step-parent to our daughter, she hasn't been there from the beginning so I am definitely mummy iyswim. I'd like to do something for her on mothers day but not sure what. What do other two mum families do? Do you both get cards or just one? If just one of you does the other get a day as well?!
I am non birth mum to our 2 children. We always get cards and a present for the other mum from them. She is mummy I am mumma. I am birth mum to 2 other children (I met her when they were 8 and 9) and they both get her a card or similar. She gets the lie in though! We do something 'family' for the day. I would certainly acknowledge her parent status. Have a nice day!