In a long term relationship with dp... Totally in love with a woman 😖

[Todayistheday15]

Yeah that really!

I'm in a rather large pickle! And whatever decision i make people get hurt!

We also have two young dc!
Dp knows about her as I've been friends with her for over 3 years and have been with her before so I'm obviously not supposed to be seeing her anymore!
My mum will disown me 'if my issues arise again' this has been said on more than one occasion!
I do love dp, we have had a very rocky relationship but he is trying his best and changed a lot for the better.
I know I've done wrong so I don't need telling I don't know what I want from this just wanted to say it to someone

[Penfold007]

Okay so your having an affair. What do you want to do leave DP or end it with the OW? You need to decide.

[Todayistheday15]

I have only been speaking to her the last week but all old feelings are still there! Even more so

[Todayistheday15]

But yes that didn't answer your question! I don't know as I'll lose either way and so will other people and I feel selfish either way too

[PotteringAlong]

It's been a week. Are you really going to split you family up over 7 days? Delete her number, stop contact, walk away.

[PotteringAlong]

Why do you loose either way?