Hi!
I've joined the forum in search of advice.
Basically, I've been in an on/off lesbian relationship for 3 years. Recently, we had a very big off. I'm talking nearly a year...despite living together, still loving each other etc.
Well...I don't really know what came over me. Probably fed up of feeling rejected. However I ended up with a man one night and we hooked up a couple more times.
Despite protection, I was comoletely paranoid in July that I was pregnant from this. Test said negative and I had what seemed to be a normal cycle.
The last couple of days however, I couldn't shift that feeling. My hair has been extra greasy, I've been feeling bloated, tired, nauseous and I realised I was about 4 days late for my cycle. Low and behold, a test at 7pm proved to be very positive.
Now...I could be anything from 6 to 10 weeks really, if my maths is right.
The only thing is, my relationship got back on track. I know people say new life can bring a couple together, but how does that work when the other half openly says they hate children.
To top things off, I'm a mature student who works 40 hours a week in favour of the course.
I guess what I'm asking for is reassurance that this situation is 'doable'. I've always wanted children. I'm almost certain I couldn't choose to end this life.
But I am so torn as to how I'm going to approach ANYONE about this. Even my medical records say lesbian these days to stop them asking the 'could you be pregnant' question.
Rant over. I'm sorry! Rah! X
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Hello01 · 24/08/2013 00:21
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