My 14YO DD came out to me yesterday, I had an inkling for a couple of weeks due to recent relationship with a friend. My view is as long as she is happy and whoever she is in a relationship with treats her with kindness and respect then I am happy too. Ok honestly, I am still struggling a little with it in my head :-S but so much of the difficulties over the last 18 months or so are now starting to make some sense. She has self-harmed - seem to be over that now, with help and support from counselling service. Phases of depression, she definitely seems much happier in herself and is telling me she is very happy.
So all positive... but what to do about the sleepover thing? She confessed to being in a relationship with girl who slept over this weekend. I am thinking, if it was a boy then I wouldn't let them sleep in same room at this age. I would definitely have some boundaries - we also have DS 8yo and DD6yo so I have to also consider them. So thinking we need some boundaries. Just because she can't get pregnant, doesn't mean she doesn't need protecting from things that emotionally she may not be ready for. Finding it so hard to focus on anything today
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DD 'came out' to me yesterday - whole new slant on teen sleepover - advice
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Henduckgoose · 18/07/2016 12:15
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