My 15 year old daughter told me a couple of weeks ago that she is now in a relationship with her best female friend. She says she would not entirely define herself as gay but is right now...she believes in falling in love with an individual regardless of their gender. In her words her friend is 'more gay than I am'.
My dilemma is that the week before she told me this , said friend (nearly 17) stayed with us for a week, in her bedroom and they shared the bed. I am obviously supportive of their relationship but not happy that I wasn't told about it before her friend came and stayed over...Had it been a boy I would have objected to them sharing the bedroom? She knows I am. To happy that I wasn't given the information before she stayed.
My daughter wants her to stay again in September and I expect they will think they are sharing the bed again... I don't know how I feel about this, my daughter has just gone 16 recently. I'm interested to know how other Mumsnetters would approach this?
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buzzpopprince · 19/08/2015 12:41
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