My son is four and I have raised him to have an open mind with regards to all things gender. He's recently asked several times if he can have a dress. Now, I would like to be clear I have no problem with the possibility of him being transgender, although I don't think he is; he's far too impressed with his own penis.
Equally, if he decides that wearing traditionally 'female' clothes is for him, I'm more than happy to support that as well. However, at this stage I'm pretty sure it's simply sartorial experimentation; he just wants to try it. Of course, he is a little too young to understand the social repercussions he might experience.
I'm happy to buy him a dress, but less sure about him wearing it when we go out, and particularly to pre-school. I am wary about what other people's reactions to him might be. Obviously, I want to protect him from any small-minded comments that may hurt him, but I don't want to stifle him, or make him worry unnecessarily. I don't want to even introduce the concept of such intolerance to him when he is so accepting.
Any advice?
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Honeybadger83 · 31/01/2015 14:11
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