My 13-year-old DD told us she was gay a few weeks ago, which we were surprised by, but perfectly fine with. She told a couple of her closest friends at school, but that was all she wanted to do for the moment. I asked her if she wanted me to mention it to her tutor, but she said she would prefer it if I didn't. Now it appears that rumours have got around and 'people are talking about me behind my back' so she has decided to preempt the situation by making a big public annoucement on Facebook.
I just discovered this a few minutes ago when I logged on. DH is insisting I 'talk to her about it' as he is worrying about what he sees as inevitable bullying. I think he is right, but I don't know what to say. I have had several discussions with her already on dealing with homophobia, but I do support her right to be open about her sexuality if she wants to be, whereas DH thinks it is a bit premature.
I do think I need to talk to her tutor now, whether she agrees or not, but the school is not particularly proactive about homophobic bullying so I am not sure how useful this will be.
I would just like some advice on handling the situation from anyone who has been there please?
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DD has just come out on Facebook - now what?
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iamspartapuss · 12/11/2012 17:41
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