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please....can i ask for some good wishes?

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nightowl Tue 28-Jun-05 23:40:53

its looming ever closer. (my tribunal) and im so scared. ive had a bit of a drink tonight as i was supposed to receive my ex employers last minute response (as always). my rep wouldnt tell me what it said but he instructed me to not blow a fuse so im assuming its very bad. he said it was vicious anyway. i have to pick it up from the post office tomorrow. i feel like giving up. i nearly passed out today when i heard his message, im not being dramatic, i was just so shaky and my legs went. im terrified. this is harder than being pg alone, it really is. i just know im going to break down and cry. im not strong enough to deal with this. i cant stop shaking. i have less than 48 hours now. please wish me luck? i would really appreciate it. will try to be on here tomorrow. sorry for being a wimp.

hunkermunker Tue 28-Jun-05 23:45:14

You're nto a wimp and your ex-employers sound like vile bullies. I hope the tribunal sees this.

Good luck and all the support in the world, sweetheart. Try to go to bed soon and get a good night's sleep xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

HappyHuggy Tue 28-Jun-05 23:47:33


jampots Tue 28-Jun-05 23:56:16

nightowl - im going through exactly the same right now too. my hearing is on 12th august though. please feel free to cat me if you wish

nightowl Tue 28-Jun-05 23:58:21

thanks so much. i wil cat you jampots if thats ok.

jampots Wed 29-Jun-05 00:00:02

cat away! or if you're on msn......

JustThinking Wed 29-Jun-05 00:01:45

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nightowl Wed 29-Jun-05 00:06:21 a bit confuddled jampots but someone i know has our msns and says she will pass it on if that would be ok?

jampots Wed 29-Jun-05 00:07:50

not sure who but im sure its someone good

nightowl Wed 29-Jun-05 00:09:35

sorry, i am a bit tiddly

colditz Wed 29-Jun-05 00:23:17


nightowl Sun 03-Jul-05 00:21:09

well its all over now thankfully. one of the most distressing and frightening experiences of my life!! it went well, very well. i have to wait for the answer in the post though (well, whats another 6 weeks after a year of waiting eh?) they got caught out to be the liars that they are. if i lose it will be from a point of law, not because they didnt beleive me. if anyone going through the same wants to cat me i'll be hapy to share with you.

JustThinking Sun 03-Jul-05 00:24:41

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nightowl Sun 03-Jul-05 00:30:12

thanks jt, means a lot. im hugely proud of myself. barrister person tried to rip me to pieces but he failed miserably. even if i lose on this legal point, at least i went there head held high and i stood up to them. feeling good!!

PollyLogos Sun 03-Jul-05 09:19:11

Good for you nightowl! I hope the result is positive.

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