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Have you handled probate without a solicitor?(15 Posts)
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. It's a terrible thing to happen at any time, but particularly so late in your pregnancy, and after losing your dad.
My mum died (when I was pregnant) a couple of years ago, and we did use a solicitor to sort out probate. It cost about £800 in total, for about 3 or 4 meetings - the estate itself was fairly straightforward but the circumstances involved were complicated and I'm not sure we'd have been able to manage without one.
Sorry I can't be more helpful - I'm sure you'll be able to find people with a bit of legal knowledge who would be able to give you an idea of how to go about sorting probate, but at the time I had absolutely no idea what to do so it was easier to hand it over to someone else. You might even be able to find books on how to do it - perhaps worth a quick search on amazon or something?
Look after yourself and bump.x
oh so sorry to hear about your mum 006, so tragic . What a terrible time you've had. I hope the impending birth will help to ease this dreadful time.
When my DH died, I think I contacted a solicitor who told me I was probably capable of doing it myself. As his spouse, everything was left to me and maybe that's what makes it more straightforward with regard to inheritance tax etc. If you think her estate is more than the threshold (about £240k I believe, but don't quote me) then it may be harder to tackle, especially if her estate will be split.
Anyway, I contacted the probate office who were very helpful and sent me all the forms then I had an 'interview' with the probate lady at the local court who went through it all with me and granted the probate, which took a few weeks.
I suppose if I were in your position, hopefully you can get someone to help you with it....I would call the probate office and have a chat with them, ask them to send you the forms, have a good read through and see if you;re able to complete them then decide if you think a solicitor will be necessary. I take it all that side of things following your dads passing has been dealt with? Sorry if this has not made much sense, its a bit hazy for me. I'm not a great fan of solicitors tbh, though obviously the one I spoke to was good and genuine.
take care of yourself xx
Sorry to hear your sad news, 006.
Each institution (bank, etc) will have its own limit on how much they will pass to an executor without probate (£2000 may be typical).
If the estate includes larger amounts of money, or a house, then the will must go to probate.
Here's the link to the probate people.
006, the institutions will need to see the will and they'll want to make a photocopy for their records. Do NOT allow them to separate the pages in order to run them through the photocopier feeder. They can fold pages out of the way to make the copy. Once pages are separated, there is no proof that they originally made one single document.
Sorry to hear about your parents.
I don't think you need to have a solicitor (my FIL has done it without one) - go to the library and see if there are any books about probate. Get the forms as DelGirl suggests and see if you think you can handle it.
This is a useful starting point - you can download a pdf or order a leaflet. HTH
The "Which?" book on wills and probate is really good (or was several years ago) and you should easily be able to handle a simple will without involving a solicitor -- as throckenholt says, you can probably even get the book from the library.
Best of luck 006, hope you can get some help with all this. It took me weeks to sort out dh's estate and I was going through fertility treatment at the time too but not 38 weeks pg. Look after yourself, these things can usually wait.
DH is a probate solicitor (see his link on the Mumsnet homepage for authenticity). If you need any information about what might be involved, or an idea of costs (although these do vary with firms and locations) give me a shout and I can ask him.
Very sorry to hear about your mum, and your dad as well 006.
My brother sorted out my dad's probate on his own, he (my brother) is an actuary so probably has a head start in this sort of thing. It was a very simple will, but it completely emotionally wiped out my brother for a while. When my mum died and there was a similarly simple will, my brother and I got a solictor involved - it cost us about 4% I think of the total money involved.
Personally in your situation I wouldn't be strong enough to do this on my own, but perhaps you are. I wish you luck.
006 - so sorry to hear about your losses.
I am the executor for my grandmothers estate, which was a simple 6 way split will, just under the inheritance tax threshold (which is about £240,000 before you have to start filling in extra forms). Getting probate was simple - 2 forms to fill out, then a 10 minute appointment. Then lots of posting stuff out to get control of bank accounts etc. You do need to be organised, but don't need any specialised knowledge, and I found the people on the end of the helplines were very helpful. TBH for me it was simpler to do it myslef than arrange appointemts with a solicitor
You go through probate first, and then sell the house. So now you have a sitter you don't necessarily have to rush to do that. Do check the buildings/contents insurance though - whilst most companies will not mind that someone else is living in the house they do need to be informed to keep it valid. You can ususally do this before probabte is granted, then forward them a copy of the certificate once you get it.
If you do decide to do it yourslef feel free to ask any further questions - the process is still quite fresh in my mind.
Even before you make any other arrangements, inform the banks, etc., about the death. The accounts will be frozen - all direct debits, etc., will stop.
Present the undertaker's invoice direct to the bank - they will pay it from your mum's (frozen)account.
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