I've name changed for extra anonymity so I don't risk being linked to my friend who I'm posting about as she's not on MN so I'm asking on her behalf.
She's recently escaped a very abusive relationship after years of financial and emotional abuse and coercive control. Her ex is building a case against her making out she is abusive and unstable even though my friend can prove he's run up thousands of pounds of debt in her name, taken her wages which she has no access to and withheld money for all essentials, not to mention hidden cameras all over the house to spy on his stepchildren even in their bedroom with the footage going straight to his phone
She found a file on his computer where he's twisted everything to make out it's her and her children that are abusive and she's unstable. He's trying to get custody of their shared child. She panicked and deleted it. He's now recovered the file she deleted and can prove she was the only one who had the opportunity and motive to do it. They were due in court but he's been granted an adjournment to give him extra time to prepare his case in light of that file being deleted
How badly is it going to go for her in court in light of this? She's already completely beaten down and he's going in all guns blazing
I'm scared to write anymore just in case he should find this and use anything said against her, she thinks he knows about everywhere she goes on the internet, she doesn't use MN so it should be ok but this might come up in a Google search. He's really computer savvy
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PollyPaintsFlowers · 03/03/2021 18:08
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