Just looking for others' experiences and advice...
I have recently instructed a solicitor to represent me in obtaining a non-molestation order against my STBXH. The solicitor was recommended by Women's Aid. I have had a few issues with contacting him, in that he doesn't reply to messages on Mondays (which I now assume is his 'day off' but I wasn't told this) and he sends messages past 11pm and phones me on Sundays, but I can just about live with all this.
My issue is that as we are progressing, my STBXH's solicitor is automatically sending other things to him, such as arrangements for child contact, and he has therefore become my solicitor for everything else through default. I wrote a long letter in reply to my STBXH's solicitor a few days ago and asked my solicitor to forward it. He didn't reply to me and, only after I'd pushed him, he said he'd reworded it and sent it. I asked him for a copy of the reworded letter and he said he doesn't generally copy clients in as he is representing me but he would forward me the email.
24 hours later I still haven't heard anything. I feel like I'm constantly pushing for information and to be kept in the loop. I get that he's busy (hence the calls and emails in the evenings and at weekends) but as I've never dealt with a solicitor before I don't know if I'm expecting too much? Is this standard for solicitors and I'm just being over pushy, or should I expect him to keep me updated with correspondence?
Thank you for any advice!
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lemurllama · 16/09/2020 12:10
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